I hope buyers don't read the MSN article and save it as a plan. This blogger has the right idea about it.
My Sunday morning always starts with Active rain after a few cups of my drug of choice, coffee. I love to comment but my thoughts always turn to writing a blog post. This is a thank you to Christopher Solomon for his article today about a Buyers Negotiation Boot Camp. Let me share some of his pearls with you.
1. Negotiation mistake one. Jumping right in and looking for homes. He is right about gathering information first before buying. But his idea is to do this before you ever talk to a Realtor. I have to say that finding consensus on the internet is impossible. One needs someone to interpret the data. How about dare I say it a Realtor. Isn't that our job to separate fact from fiction? But this was the least objectionable part.
2. It is wrong to believe your real estate agent is your buddy, so don't tell her what you can spend. Hello McFly! Dear Chris, as agents we go through a process of prequalification that most times includes a loan officer. Why show something you would like that you can't afford? I am also a bit insulted that you say that all I care about is maxing you out on payments. Agents that are still in the business with professional intent know that your best advertising is a satisfied client. Your suggestion to go 5% to 10% below your qualifications is also crap. Why stop there. My back in ratio last time was 18%. I know, you drew that percentage out of a hat. Why not just consult the I Ching?
3. This one is laughable. If you see a house you like, don't express your interest in it, you will alert the seller or the seller's agent. Excuse me but I have a buyers agent that insist that the listing agent and seller are not present. But this is where ole Chris tips his hand for the next fun part.
4. This is where he says the best thing to do is ditch the Realtor you are working with and negotiate directly with the seller's agent. I have an idea Chris. The next time you are sued and go to court, rather than having your own lawyer, use the suer's lawyer. He will take care of you, and how. Mr. Solomon, a good agent that represents a seller has a duty to get the highest price and the best terms for them, and is limited to giving you information. Oh wait a minute, this violates your rule one about getting all the information you need! At this point I began to wonder if Chris was an owner or renter.
5. This was a fave for me. If you find a house you really like, don't make an offer immediately. Can I tell you a story? 5 years after I graduated from high school I met a girl that I was head over heels for from my class, and I told her that I wanted to date her but was afraid to ask her out out of fear of rejection. She told me that she would have gladly dated me, and why did I never ask her out? A good deal is like that. While you tarry someone else gets the girl.
6-8. Since this could go on forever and you need to get to church this morning let me share his other gems. Your first offer should be 20% to 30% lower. Overgeneralized, and all real estate is hyper local. Looks like the I Ching again. Don't accept a meet in the middle offer. Somethimes Chris that is a win-win. You just threw that in because you needed one more to reach 8.
Finally, Chris has a right to his opinion, but he also has a duty to know what he is talking about if he has a national forum. Chris when you are telling people what to do, try balance next time. And oh, before I forget, the next time you right a real estate article, consult a Realtor. They can help you.
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My Sunday morning always starts with Active rain after a few cups of my drug of choice, coffee. I love to comment but my thoughts always turn to writing a blog post. This is a thank you to Christopher Solomon for his article today about a Buyers Negotiation Boot Camp. Let me share some of his pearls with you.


3. You can likely buy a house you otherwise could not have afforded, and may not be able to afford again!






Who hasn't heard that age old putdown: Real Estate Agents are akin to Used Car Salespeople?